Saturday, December 4, 2010

Mister Spankman's Neighborhood

Mister Spankman's Neighborhood ( my video premiere )

The video shoot I did with the direction and guidance of Alicia Panettiere is up.

It's called Mister Spankman's Neighborhood. If you like to take a look here is the link on Spankingtube:…

To see it in full go to her website:

See you in the neighborhood ! ( lol )

Thursday, December 2, 2010

First video shoot

Last Saturday was a new experience for me. I did my first video shoot ever. This was all possible, thanks to Alicia Panettiere. She set the whole thing up and guided me through it. When the clip is available, I'll post here the info on where to find it.

Below I have posted the website for Alicia Panettiere. I strongly recommend visiting it. She is an amazing lady.

Sunday, October 31, 2010

What have I been up to lately

I haven't updated here, much lately, I need to correct that. After mostly a summer lull, things picked up recently.

On October 16 we had Spanktoberfest here in Kansas City, sponsored by KC Spanks Club. We had a small but enthusiastic turnout. Future parties will be extended out a couple more hours.

October 30 went to a more BDSM party. Once again in Kansas City. I had the time of my life.

I have a spanking partner from the BDSM community ( who said the two couldn't mix, LOL ). We have a blast playing together. She can take a lot. In our sessions, I hand spank her, move to the wood paddles, more hand spanking. Then the leather toys, leather paddles, floggers, the cat o' nine tails ( I have a neat little spanking trick with it that always get results . Then we play with her own personal fanny paddle !

I mix hand spanking in between the implements. That is actually my favorite. I always have considered implements as an accessory to a spanking scene. For me the major part of the spanking is my hand, making contact with her butt !

Time flies when we play, usually a good hour at least.

Good times indeed !!

Sorry folks, no pics.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Esquire Interview

Well if you buy this month's Esquire you get to read my few brief sentences with their interviewer.

How do I feel about the article ( pg 90 by the way ). The contents weren't bad, but the cartoon of the adult male, getting spanked with a pacifier in his mouth, ruined it.

When you agree to give an interview, you are at the mercy of the interviewee. as long as they quote you right, that is all they have to stand by. They actually got the gest that you can't generalize why someone is into spanking.

Contents as I said, not bad. Cartoon was cool, but why did they ruin it implying infantilism ?

Sunday, July 25, 2010



date: Saturday, October 16, 2010
time: 07:00 PM to 10:00 PM
where: Master Richard's Place
address: given upon RSVP
cost: $10
dress code: casual street, fetish, ( uniform, school girl, period costume )

Play party/social event. There will be no demo. Instead this will be a chance
for spanking enthusiast to meet, exchange ideas and stories and of course, SPANK !

There will be a side activity ( more on that later ). A door prize plus
spanking, paddling, caning, etc. activities.

PLUS: Drum Roll, A PRINCE and PRINCESS of SPANKTOBERFEST. ( couple chosen by
drawing )!

Also, there will be sandwiches and a few other food items available.

Any questions contact, Rich Spankman, here on Fetlife or the KC Spanks Club
yahoo group:…

or private e-mail:

July 23, Summer Butt Whooping, Kansas City, Missouri

Been a while since I've posted anything here. didn't have much to report till now.

Last Friday night the KC Spanks Club had it's second event. It was called Summer Butt Whooping. it was a combo retro spanking/ domestic discipline/ play party event.

A friend of mine, meowwl, assisted me as the bottom in the demo. it concentrated on items you can find around the house, that parents and grandparents would gave used. Wood spoons, belts, spatulas, tree branch switches.

Due to some late arrivals we repeated the whole demo. It seemed well received.

Next we had the play party. The facility we used, Master Richard's Place, upstairs where the demo was, is an art gallery. The basement, there is a BDSM dungeon. This is our play area (note, while we use their furniture and space, this is strictly a spanking event).

A highlight of my night was introducing a friend of mine to the joys of adult sensation spanking. While a member of the BDSM community, she had doubts about spanking play. Under the assumption that all spankings/paddlings are severe. I told her, she sets the limit, tell me what she wants. It was a joy watching her react to what she considered her truly first adult spanking. I'm of the school of thought, that a spanking is, what it is perceived by the spankee. There are no wimpy spankings. Just allowing someone to spank your butt, is 90% of it. I only spank to please the spankee, not any on lookers.

Event last a 3 hours, some socializing, spanking, hugging. A good time.


Tuesday, April 13, 2010

The Spirit Spanking Art

Spanking art has a sensuality all it's own. No one does this better, than THE SPIRIT. Go ahead take a look.

Check out his website:

Monday, April 5, 2010

KC Spanks Club presents: Summer Butt WHOPPING

KC Spanks Club presents: GET YOUR SUMMER WHOPPING !
This presentation and demo by KC Spanks Club will be a trip down memory lane. Grandpa and Grandma didn't spank, they gave WHOPPINGS ! No fancy, expensive implements. You cut a switch from a tree, fetched a wood spoon from the drawer, get the belt hanging up in the hall way, plus other creative techniques to give a butt, WHOPPING.
Presentation by Rich Spankman on traditional household items. For the demo, our fantastic, Meowl will be assisting as the whoppee !
Presentation and demo will be short, this gives us for time for the play party. ( Note: THIS IS A SPANKING ONLY EVENT. SPANKING and it's relatives; paddling, caning, strapping, etc. will be allowed ) Spanking as defined is :striking only the buttocks .
This is a 21+ event. Government approved IDs checked at door ( drivers license , state ID )
Clothing: In the general meeting room, NO NUDITY. In the play area, only buttocks may be exposed. Thongs are highly recommended if you wish to do bare bottom play.
No alcohol ( Balanca's a bar next door is available ), No cameras
Date: Friday, July 23, 2010
Time: 7:30 PM - 9:30 PM
Place: Master Richard's Place
Kansas City, MO.
( address will be given only to those who RSVP ).
Cost: $10
There will be a drawing for a door prize. Plus, we will have a party tray(s) available.

RSVPs and questions send to: Rich Spankman

Thursday, April 1, 2010

KC Spanks Club; now on My Space

I've set up a My Space account for the club. It is:


Sunday, March 21, 2010

KC Spanks Club ( 1st play party )

A friend of mine helping out, initiating our first spanking play party.

Monday, March 15, 2010

Event Success

The first presentation of the KC Spanks Club: Paddles and Hand in Sensation Spanking/St. Paddles Day was a major success. First real effort to bring spanking enthusaist in the Kansas City area together. YES, I got to do some fantastic spanking ( hopefully have pics later ).


Saturday, February 20, 2010

Paddle and Hand in Sensation Spanking

This is a presentation to premiere our new spanking club in Kansas City, KC Spankers Club.

date: Friday, March 12, 2010
time: 07:00 PM to 08:00 PM
where: Master Richard's Place
address: 1813 Grand Ave.
Kansas City, MO.
cost: $10
dress code: Casual or Fetish attire ( this is not a BDSM event). However, suits, uniforms , etc are very acceptable and welcome

Rich Spankman ( me ) will be giving a presentation on the use of hand and paddles in giving your bottom ( not your bottom, the spankee's bottom ) a truly exciting spanking experience. Paddles have long been seen as an instrument of dread. In the right hand, they can become an instrument of excitement.

This will cover safety in use of hand and paddles, various spanking positions, and it will conclude with a BIRTHDAY SPANKING !

After the presentation,a SPANKING PLAY PARTY !!

Rich Spankman

Sunday, January 31, 2010

Marianne Faithfull, Girl on a Motorcycle

Link: Girl on a motorcycle

I am a 1960s fanatic and one of my favorite personages from that era is Marrianne Faithfull. At that time seen mainly for her rendition of the Rolling Stones " As Tears Go By " and as Mick Jagger's girlfriend. As time has gone by,she has become much more. She still performs in concert and makes recordings.

This film, contains a one smack spank in it on Marrianne's bottom. One spank is better than none.

A special thanks to Chross for finding this clip.


Friday, January 29, 2010

Rocky Horror Fans ! Janet gives a spanking !!

True, at a recent performance by, of Montreal, in Manhatten, Susan Sarandon came on stage and administers an over the knee spanking to a guy dressed in a pig costume. I've been a fan of Ms. Sarandon's for many years ( LOL ), we're almost contemporaries. This clip confirms, my admiration was justified !!


Sunday, January 24, 2010

Rich... Where are your videos ?

Early on I'll point something out. Other than a few pics, I was never part of any video session ( or for that matter, ever asked. Well once, and she was sort of a BSer).

Any pics you see here are from people I knew in the Kansas City Missouri or Lawrence, Kansas area who just happened to be into spanking. NO CELEBS here. In my book they are all celebrities and special to me. But no vids of my friends and me.


Saturday, January 23, 2010

La Sculacciala 1974

This may require a login to DailyMotion

Italian movie featuring the beautiful Sydne Rome as the spankee ( she gets the switch in another movie called, WHAT ? or CHE ?). The spanker is Antonio Salines.

I don't speak Italian but from what I gather, he is reading a manual to teach him how to spank his wife. Hmmmm, I don't think I would need any help spanking the beautiful derriere of Ms. Rome !

Kiss Me Kate ( the originals )

Here is a clip of the original Broadway stars of Kiss Me Kate, Alfred Drake and Patrica Morison ( 1948 ) doing their thing on a Hallmark Hall of Fame production for television in 1958 ( courtesy of Richard Windsor ).

You need a SPANKING ! Get ye to a Fetish SHOW !!

This is something I wanted to share with the group.

In the present world spanking given as discipline is a rarity. The few places spankings are given to the public are fetish shows.  many of them have spanking stations set up, with knowledgeable spankers on hand to administer this time honored method of correction  In fact, in some instances it is a lost skill.  Here is one example. Six years ago I was running my spanking booth at a fetish show in Kansas City. A black lady, let's say in her mid 40s approached me. She asked me if I could do her a favor. I told her it depended what it was.

She motioned towards two women, I'd say early 20s to come over. The lady told me, they were her nieces, out of control and needed discipline. If I could give them both a spanking ! She also wanted to watch, to learn how to spank them in the future. All spankings had to be consensual at the spanking booth, so I believe she discussed this with them beforehand.

I asked the two ladies, if they felt they needed a spanking, one replied quickly, with a yes. The other, a little more on the shy side, nodded her head in agreement.

I had the first woman brace herself against a guard rail, with her bottom slightly stuck out ( she was wearing jeans ). Going through my toy bag I pulled out a one of my wood paddles. About a foot in length, half an inch in density. I instructed the woman I was going to paddle her. She nodded her head and said, " okay." I proceeded to give her around 12 swats with the paddle. They weren't real hard, between starting light, medium intensity. For her last swat I told her, this was going to be a l harder then the others. I let it go right to her sit spot, she yelped a little. I told her that was it. She turned around, smiled and hugged me.

Now it was the next lady's turn. She shyly glanced at me and told me in a low voice, she needed a spanking ! I told her, I'd be more than glad to help.

I told her to position herself like her friend. I noticed her jeans were cut away at the sit spots. She was going to receive a partially bare paddling. I went to my toy bag and pulled out a small, oval wood paddle, that was just made to pay service to her exposed lower cheeks. The circunference of the paddle was six inches across.  The perfect size to cover each of her bun cheeks. I proceeded to paddle her, alternating cheeks, changing speeds, spreading the paddle swats around, but giving emphasis on her exposed bottom buns. The paddling lasted probably 3 minutes. After I told her I was done, she stayed in position and she told me she needed a little more attention. I put the paddle down and gave her several medium intensity hand spanks on each of her exposed butt cheeks. Cupping my right hand, as it fit perfectly when making contacting with her lower bun cheeks. Between spanks I rubbed the area and gave her a few more. We stopped, she also hugged me and left the spanking area.

The lady who brought the younf women, thanked me. she said she picked up some ideas.  They proceeded back to their seats, to take in the on stage show.
Folks, this was HOT ! Not only did I get to give two great spankings, but also got to serve a necessary function of helping the lady in charge of them issue DISCIPLINE !! ( LOL ).


Wednesday, January 20, 2010


This is a fun little clip I found surfing on YouTube. I think you'll enjoy it.

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Liz Hurley - The Spanker's Advocate

Back in the late 1990s Liz Hurley created quite a stir for us spankos by admitting, she was one of us. While I personally believe all spankos are celebs, it never hurts, ( lol ), when a major mainstream performer admits, they are one of us.

article below is from the London Times, 1997.

The Times - April 27th 1997
Oh, the cheek of it - Liz Hurley and her friends like to smack each other for fun. And so, it seems, do thousands of others. But why? Christopher Middleton gets to the bottom of it.
Spank you very much
Embarrassing party games
The news that Elizabeth Hurley is partial to a bit of spanking has sent a warm glow of exitement across the cheeks of her admirers. As well as unveiling a whole new range of career opportunities - the face of Estee Lauder, the bottom of andrex supersoft - the story has come as a revelation to those who thought spanking was the sole province of naughty old home counties colonels and girls in jodhpurs.
According to Los Angeles, a Hollywood-based magazine, Hurley belongs to a group of racy English expats nicknamed the viles, for whom spanking beats the pants off other party games. Of an evening, when they`re all premiered out, the viles apparently go round to each other`s houses and take turns to bend over a sofa, baring their glutei maximi to the others. The object of the game is for the spankee to guess the identity of the spanker. You can imagine the fun they have.
Come christmas, the viles all return en masse to England and regroup for their annual party, hosted by Hurley`s big pal Henry Dent-Brocklehurst at Sudeley Castle. And, of course, this bash would be incomplete without an obligatory round of the spanking game. "Silly and naughty," is how Hurley describes it. "For people who don`t take themselves too seriously," says Dent-Brocklehurst.
For people who`ve been to Eaton too, says Cynthia Payne, the celebrated former madam, whose expirience led her to the conclusion that most spanking enthusiasts have a public school background. "You can tell they got a taste for it along with all the cold showers," she says, "A lot of the time they like to dress up in school uniform too."
Nevertheless it`s not just the toffs who like a firm hand on their behind. According to the anthropologist and author Ted Polhemus, the pleasure that can be derived from a spanking session is available to all.
"The pain triggers the release of opiate-like chemicals in the brain that have the effect of producing an endorphin high," he says, "The person who seeks to re-create it on a regular basis can be categorised as an endorphin junkie."
According to the psychologist DR Glenn Wilson, it may not be matron who gets boys first interested in smacking, but mother. "My theory is that your critical experiences before the age of three go into determining what will be your sexual turn-on as an adult," he says, "And although you might not actually enjoy being spanked as a child, the vividness of the expirience will impose itself on your blueprint - and in later life you will want to re-create it.
"Another school for thought says that the appeal of bottom-smacking goes back to the days when we were apes, and having a red bottom was a mark of sexual attraction."
Ah, so that`s why Hurley`s production company is called Simian Films. These days though, spanking is spread across a much wider social spectrum than just apes and aristocrats.
"There`s a lot more of it going on than you might imagine," says DR Patrick Magee, a sexual-behaviour expert based at the Bolton Institute. "There is even some evidence that the role-playing and dramaturgic elements of spanking can have calming, therapeutic effect upon the people who engage in it."
Perhaps this is why so many high-flyers indulge. Emma and Michael are city lawyers who met at a client`s drinks party last year. "Michael and I went on a few dates," says emma, "He seemed like your regular kind of guy - hardworking, intelligent and into football and the opera. One day I was dressing a salad in the kitchen, I leant over to reach for the olive oil and felt a sharp slap on my backside, it definitely wasn`t just a friendly pat, that was when he first admitted he was into spanking. I suppose he could have worse foibles."
James, a merchant banker, recalls being invited to a party by a colleague. "Everyone seemed to know one another," he says, "So I was the only one to look shocked when it was suggested that they take turns to spank me. At first I refused, but the whole room began booing and hissing. I decided it was easier just to get on with it, it was incredibly humiliating for me, but they all seemed to enjoy themselves mightily."
While most spankers prefer to use their hands, others invest in specialised equipment, made by the likes of RGL Designes, a company based in Nelson, Lancashire.
"A lot of people go for a big leather paddle," says Martin Page, RGL`s managing director. "Spanking with the bare hand can often be quite unsatisfactory. Basically, the woman doesn`t hit the man hard enough for him to feel it, and when she does, she`s liable to damage her hand in the process." Page has more than 19.000 names on his mailing list.
Spanking is now big business: Scores of firms in Britain sell mail-order "Light corrective" equipment. There`s fetters in London, Wendy Jane in Cambridgeshire, and if you are in Plymouth, why not stop off at Westward Bound for all your spanking needs? But it is in North America that the sound of spanking is at it`s loudest. There is even an academy of punishment in Menlo Park, California. So institutionalised is rump-whacking that rather like hairdressing salons in Britain, the businesses all have jokey names. In Chicago therefore, you can buy equipment at the house off thwacks, and in Vancouver you can stay at the picturesque Payne Manor.
Hurley and friends aside, the signs are that spanking is now making it`s mark on mainstreem UK society. This year sees the release of a British film called Preaching To The Perverted, all about the rubber and bottom scene. It`s directed by Stuart Urban (an ungentlemanly act) and stars Tom Bell, Sue Johnson, and the dark haired actress from the Peugot 106 ad (Julie Graham) as a pvc clad dominatrix.
So discerning have Britain`s bottom-smackers become that there is now even a sort of which? guide to the best spank practitioners, called domina directory. You can also buy any number of glossy magazines on the subject, one of which, Skin Two, claims 30.000 readers per issue. Now that smacks of success.

Monday, January 11, 2010

Potential Kansas City Spanking group

The planned meeting to get a spanking group going in Kansas City has been temporarily postponed. It will be rescheduled at a later date.


Friday, January 1, 2010

Anyone for a "caesar spanking?"

A few years ago I worked a series of shows in Lawrence Kansas called EROS NIGHTS. These were fun and of course my spanking booth was in full action. This was a themed event. One month it was Mardi Gras, the next Arabian Nights, the photo here is from Roman Evenings.

I was dressed up as a Roman emperor. The play area was decked out in white and gold coverings with of course fake ivy hanging from everything.

In the photo we have me sitting in all my majesty ( LOL ) and in another a wayward goth who happened to be passing through the play area. Shes a good friend of mine and I might add a fun spankee !!


Professional S

Spanker, Norman Foster
Spankee, Ginger Rogers

Ginger Rogers is one of my favorite actresses. She had it all; style, beauty, grace and of course damn sexy. Norman Foster, Well, I don't know a lot about him, but he sure played his scene well here.

I might add a special note about this clip ( watch it in it's entirety to really understand what leads up to the spanking scene). A side body shot of Miss Rogers. Why that is important ? She is actually taking the spanking. When body doubles are used, you don't see a face or the bottom at the same time. As a spanker, this means a lot to me.

This is pre Hays code Hollywood. Goes to show our forebears, ( a generation back a few, knew as we do that spanking is a GREAT time. In fact, they were a lot more open about it then the current Hollywoood gurus.